Gay Clinic sees no patients on First Day
[Jiangnan Times, 15 Feb 2004
]
Yesterday, Nanjing’s first gay health clinic opened in the Nanjing
Jinling Men’s Hospital, but not a single person came for treatment. Experts
point out that society should give more understanding and support to homosexuals.
Yesterday at 9am, this journalist arrived at the newly opened
clinic on the third floor of the Jinling Men’s Hospital. In the hallway
there were not a few patients, but all were married couples or relatives,
and all were there about married couples’ or lovers’ matters. According
to Ding Xuegang, the head of the Men’s health department at the hospital,
the gay clinic that the hospital opened on Valentine’s Day is a special
type of clinic designed to give emotional guidance when one partner in
a married couple has homosexual tendencies. Because homosexuality is no
longer considered to be a sexual perversion, but is rather a different
sexual orientation, therefore it is not an illness and it would be inappropriate
to open a clinic [to treat the condition].
Acccording to their experiences, homosexuals who come to the hospital
are subject to three different pressures: Family pressure from parents
or wives who tell them to go get treated in a hospital; Social pressure
from the majority of people who still do not understand and even exclude
homosexuals, which makes them feel they are not normal; and Health pressures,
as homosexuals usually engage in anal and oral sex, so it is easier to
get sexually transmitted infections and they must visit to hospital in
order to protect their own health. From a social perspective, people should
have more tolerance for them.
In addition, Dr. Ding pointed out, a person must meet three conditions
to really be considered a homosexual: you must have homosexual tendencies;
you must have homosexual activities; and you must recognize yourself as
a homosexual. Many soldiers or university students may have such tendencies
while in the military or in the university, and may even have homosexual
experiences, but when they return to society they are able to return to
heterosexual society. These people are bisexual. If they run into problems
in married life, they can turn to the homosexual clinic for information.
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